She's 25, and she did not travel to Italy with my parents. Knowing her whereabouts is a safety thing.

And about the strict parents thing, she keeps bringing up in arguments that my parents never let her go out, or never let her have a dance in high school when we were in the U.S. And I can vouch for that argument, and even empathize. But that should not be the argument she makes when we talk about something like this issue. I'm not saying she has, I'm just saying that she should have a better way to cope with that sadness instead of overcompensating. If she thinks it's fair that she overcompensate for her childhood, then it's equally fair that I yell at her all the time for no reason at all. Because she used to do that a lot when I was little, like when I was 14 or 15. But I don't react the was she does; not often, anyway. I don't wanna get into my other issues that I've already posted other threads on, but her story is similar to mine, if I had a lot of friends and trusted my own judgement at the time. Oops, sorry I got distracted.

I hope you don't mind if I P.M you sometime(you can inform me if you don't feel comfortable with me p.m-ing you, obviously), because this can of worms just opened up again when I heard my sister's voice on the phone recently. I avoided talking to her saying that her voice was breaking up. I can't even talk to her now. Before she left, I gather the whatever you call it to go apologize to her for my reaction, but now, I just can't. I wish my feelings subsided much earlier, so that members of this forum would have time to answer for other people's real problems. But apparently that's not the case.