Well I have been to the doctor and was given two sticks to take swabs, one to test for bacterial infection and one for STD, which having not had sex for a while now I doubt is the case, have already asked the person I was with and he insists he hadn't been with anyone else. So am thinking I might have a bacterial infection as have had brown discharge in the last few days. I saw another doctor from the normal one. But I hate anything going up my vagina anyway, one of the main reasons I don't enjoy sex, I tense up at the thought of anything going there. So am not looking forward to doing the tests. But thought I would update the thread anyway. Thank you for all the advice people have given me, is much appreciated.