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"before you pass judgement upon me, read this turmoil between my ears that most call a mind"

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hehe That's a good one! They already think I don't have a mind! LOL

The biggest problem is they expect everyone to think and act the way they want you to. When I spoke to my oldest son, he wouldn't listen to reason. He didn't accept the fact that the invitation simply wasn't in either of my mailboxes. He thought that if my husband and his youngest brother knew the particulars, then I should have, too. He was angry and justified his anger so he wouldn't have to give it up. My youngest did say that it was his brother's wife that made the big deal, so by the time I talked to my son, she'd got him all worked up and he obviously felt he was standing up for her. I've seen it happen in person. They feed off each other. Hell! At least they stand united... sometimes! Sometimes they work against in each in the same way.

Thanks for your opinion, though. Seems I've accomplished most of what I wanted to; like keeping emotions out of it and not sounding like I was accusing anyone. They're still going to have a problem with it, but hey! I need to do what I feel I need, right? Who knows. It might just get them going in another direction.