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At some point I mentioned that it's difficult to show when you're angry because when you're sad or scared, people feel for you and try to help. But when you're angry, they judge you for it, tell you to stop or get angry back. He replied with something that sounded like he'd never realized that.
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I think there are big differences in how people react to anger when it's coming from a girl/woman vs. when it's coming from a boy/man. I've been trying to learn to see anger as a source of power but it's hard to unlearn all the stuff about being angry=being out of control or irrational or bad.