My sisters know how to say “No, I’m sorry” or when she starts drama, they say, “You know what, I really have to get going” and walk away. They did that early, so she doesn’t have an expectation of them.

I, on the other hand, didn’t have the backbone to say “no” for many years. So she thinks that there is still a glimpse of hope to hoover me back in.

I’ve heard that narcissist can “detect the scent” of a vulnerable prey.

Maybe there should be a new thread about how to avoid becoming a prey. Because if I don't change myself (and I am in therapy), even if she were to miraculously go away, I would just be targeted by someone else.