52 >>> .. Until it is at your door and you see for real the fear that another has ,,, in so far as life and death ,,, we all have to come to a Pleasant Place in our minds .

And acceptance is another factor that is all so never wanted ,,, >>> when we look in the eyes of those we care so DEEPLY for .

I accept the pain ,,, but at the moment do not know that of which the other actually feels ... Human Kindness is >>> IMO a spareing by those that suffer ,, And the one that suffers ??? They too ,, try to spare us as care givers their pain .