Dear T,

Two weeks ago I came for my usual appointment and you weren't there. Last week you were out of town. So tomorrow it will be three weeks since I last saw you.

We've talked a couple times in the last week, but I don't think you're present in the same way on the phone. You say stuff that doesn't make sense for me and make assumptions that are invalidating.

We also haven't talked about how it felt that you disappeared. But maybe you don't think it's a big deal?

I am looking forward to seeing you tomorrow, but I am also pretty anxious about it.