Congratulations, newt.

I hope this goes well 4 u. Because I'm sure it is. In anthropology, I have learned.. that commitment makes things work better.. not saying it has been working bad.. but it will be like "We are engaged" Strong words.. leading to marriage.. where since you're religious, you take care of eachother in health and sickness. In this western world, 50% is good enough.

Your fiance has his **** together. He say "Engage me" and that is, a good thing.