Actually, I have no idea what I even expected.....I just hoped to get everything split up as best as possible....after 32 years...& a house so full of junk, you can't even conceptualize putting a $ amount to everything & having to split it all up.....I only want a few things to move here to KY in the first place & really just want the financial split up of the house & any money that's laying around in accounts which isn't much after all the bills were paid.

I would be very happy if he could when we do the refi that I could just get my 1/2 & then he could just keep the house & sell it whenever he gets his act together. If I end up having to wait until the house sells.....that could be forever & I just really want out with a few things & the cash to finish my farm.

He is so messed up if I wait for him to figure everything out....that will be forever also. The last time I tried to figure out the $ amount to split up, I got so frustrated, I just gave up....& that's not going to happen this time....I really need some help on that & don't want to pay the sky high prices of a lawyer to help figure that out.

Debbie