Well, actually, at this point I'm afraid I'm going to have to let this family go. An event just happened with my friend that upset me so much... And I don't even want to concern myself with her anymore.
And apparently my mother has talked to her mother about suggestions to help out her household, but she reacts as if it's insulting to her to hear them. The mother is too stubborn, and this is evidenced by said event that just occurred.
I thought I was helping my friend. She told me she had changed. But she really didn't, and neither can the rest of the family. I can't bear them on my shoulders.