I’m tired of walking on eggshells around people so as not to trigger them. I try to be myself but also respectful of others. The birth family didn’t model this for me so I’ve learnt it the very hard way. Maybe I’m a “bad” person since I don’t always muzzle myself and keep quiet as I was taught to do....by “family”

I know myself quite well I think, a few people over time have accused me of being a “bad” person.. the Narcissistic family and other people who projected things onto me. I don’t think that many people are either all “good” or all “bad”.

I think most humans want to be good at their core.

Is it becoming more common out in the world to cut someone dead at a social event after literally a minute?

I thought I had done a good job of shaving my fur off

I was polite and respectful and quiet