Thank you, Sabby and Elysium, for posting this article....
but I am confused by part of it....

TRIGGER WARNING



One of the examples of subtle or 'covert' SA is:


How can you possibly know if the "seemingly innocuous touching" had sexual overtones or meaning for the other person? Especially if it is 30 years after the fact? But even during the touching.....how do you really know the thoughts and intent of another person?

Thanks to anyone who can help with an answer,
kt