More than a year ago I wrote to someone I loved very much in the past. I waited anxiously for the reply; it never came. It still hurts me so much that I have to try hard not to think about it, and if a thought does come I have to make an effort to send it straight to God, because I simply don’t have the tools to handle it. It’s just too painful and too complicated. So I think I can understand your pain and I am deeply sorry for it. I am aware of things I did to destroy my relationship but you did no such things.

I do end up thinking it is a little kinder for the ghoster to provide at least some acknowledgement that they received your message, and perhaps a gentle explanation of what’s going on with them.

(((Hugs & support))). ❤️