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Originally Posted by ennie
Abusers tend to forget about thier own wrongs, but tend to remember very well how they "felt" wronged by others and have a way of letting you know months or even years later (through passive-aggressive/ sarcastic remarks).
It's impossible to confront someone with a selective memory [sigh...just venting here].
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Abusers have told me that incidents didn’t happen, that I was “lying” or “blowing things out of proportion”.
They refuse to respect boundaries and are unable to remember or care that THEY have wronged us.. as you said they do tend to remember very well how they “felt” wronged by others.
