I'm right there with you, Fuzzybear. Narcissists are emotional vampires that wear deceptive masks that make them seem totally normal, which they definitely are NOT.

All we can do, is find ways to protect ourselves and hope we can fend off the toxic abusers. I'm reading a book called "Boundaries" by Dr Henry Cloud & Dr John Townsend right now.

Here's one of the co-authors in a video talking about how to set boundaries. Hope that it helps.