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Originally Posted by kstella95
The best and easiest thing to do, is to block her number, delete your text thread, and start removing pictures of her from your life. I know how hard that sounds, and I know it’s not easy. It took me 5 years to delete and block my abuser and it was hard because I wanted to still know what was going on and how they were doing, but in the end I had to tell myself that it wasn’t good for me or healthy. If she’s already blocked you on Social Media, just go ahead and block her number now. That way, when she’s out of her funk and she tries to talk to you again, she won’t be able to. I hope you’re able to start healing soon and that you do what’s best for you and your piece of mind.
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I'm not on social networks (except PC
) and I never google my narc abuser. I have no interest in her and the only information I need is how to avoid her. For example, given she's a family and we have mutual friends, if I receive an invite to a party and see her as "coming" I either decide not to go or prepare an escape plan in an event she tries to isolate me (which she attempted so many times).
At first, you miss your abuser, but the more you learn to love yourself, the less you miss the person that abused you. It's a process. I know it's hard but you can do it!
