i'm sorry to hear you're mom is having trouble and it's effecting her kids. you mom needs to see a therapist and get to the root of the problem and why she drinks so much. i'm sorry. i know how it feels to have family who are depended on alcohol and drugs. they've made poor decisions and put drugs and alcohol over their family. I can see how you'd feel betrayed by your mom who seems to put her "man" before her own children. that's gotta hurt you and your sister.