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Originally Posted by downandlonely
I am also hurt when people unfriend me or don't respond to my friend requests. I also get hurt when my coworkers go to lunch and don't invite me. People say it shouldn't bother me, but I can't help it that it does.
Just wanted you to know that I understand what you're going through.
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Oh, thank you for your post, and I can certainly relate!!! I'm so sorry you are being hurt by your co-workers!
I would be too. Sometimes we cannot help how we feel, right? And if we feel hurt, we feel hurt. I get it. To say don't let it bother you doesn't really help much. It would be nice to feel included, so I understand. And when you're not included, it feels like a rejection, which hurts.
And yes, it does hurt when ppl unfriend on Facebook or reject your friend request. It's a snub, in my opinion. The message it sends is: I don't wish to associate with you or share my personal life with you. I don't see how that cannot hurt someone's feelings.