I sure do consider this entitlement. It is your attempt to control the situation to your own advantage. Definitely not an indication of respecting your partner.

I have to wonder about your views on women in general. I have to be honest here but the term incel has readily come to mind.

No woman has any obligation to you to perform sex. It is not about giving and taking either. It is about respect first and foremost and your description of your encounters cries loudly that this isn't even entering the equation. I really think you need to sit back and do a self-evaluation.

I have to be honest here about my feelings as a survivor. You scare me.

It seems your post is more about seeking validation for your concerning point of view than about the welcome consideration and discourse of a problem I worry that you actually don't realise exists.

I fully expect a slam here but I really think this needs to be raised and added to the discussion. Again, you quite frighten me.