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Originally Posted by bblazerm
When my girlfriend didn't want to give me sex or sexual activity, I treated it as a huge deal and got what I guess is anxiety over it. I tried to control her and get her to do it, and want to know the root of the problem if anyone has dealt with it and has any info.
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In addition to the other replies, I’d like to point out that there seems to be a fundamentally dysfunctional attitude toward sex being expressed here. Healthy sex shouldn’t be conceptualized as something someone “gives” you— something you “get,” or “take.”