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The only reason I agreed to marry him is because we got caught making love.

The only thing that's kept me in this marriage for so long (some of you snicker, I'm sure, because 3 years is NOT that long) is because it's "the right thing to do." Jesus said God abhors divorce.

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((( HUGS ))) - I am sorry you are having such hurt and sorrow in your heart...... and please know that while sex out side of marriage is not desired by God that it is not within its self a reason to marry (and) while God does not like divorce it can be forgiven by Him.

You can stay in the marriage and seek counseling to make it better (or) you can leave through the means of divorce and ask for forgiveness from God, then make a new life for our self.