Yes, she's unwilling to talk about it and she considers me "abnormal" because it's top of mind for me and it seems like the only thing I want to talk about. She wants me to develop more relationships with men because she considers them safe. Men talk about sports, not sex. And she doesn't want me to make friends with women, especially women willing to talk about sex.

Why? I guess she's afraid one thing will lead to another. Maybe I will find a woman who will take care of my needs. I have not been a saint in the past, so she has good reason to feel threatened, but those days are over. I don't want to do anything to upset the apple cart. I want to live happily ever after.

But if you believe a conversation with her will fix things then there's not much I can say. Some people can fix things by conversation. I've never been in a relationship that could be fixed in that way. Maybe it is a cultural thing, but I guess I'm in a situation where they say let sleeping dogs lie. LOL