I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, baobaozi I understand why you'd feel confused! I agree with what all the other people on this thread have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been given a lot of great advice on this thread! I'd suggest to follow it if you can! I agree about politely talking to her about this and see how it goes from there. Tell her that you'll keep being her friend, of course, but on your own time and schedule and that there's no need for her to contact you to tell you what to do. If she gets upset or refuses to stop contacting you, you may want to block her number. I know it's an hard decision to take, but if it bothers you so much, you have every right to do that! It's your own privacy and space that we're talking about after all! I'm not sure if I'd suggest you to talk to your friend about this though. Perhaps it's not necessary. I'm not sure about it though. The final decision is up to you! Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime! Let me know if I can do something to help you! Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, baobazi! You don't deserve to go through all of this at all! You don't deserve to suffer at all! Nobody deserves to suffer at all! Keep fighting! You're a strong, wonderful! You're awesome! You're strong! You're a warrior! Please don't give up! Try to hang on as much as you can! Remember that you're awesome and strong!