(((((((((Tomi)))))))))))

I am just reading this and feel for you.

One thing that may help too is to write down your thoughts (like you have) and then leave space for them to clarify what you said and have them respond. This may take some emails back and forth or meeting in person with a letter....either way I think that if you can discuss each point with them and communicate each item with them. By leaving them room on the paper or email to respond (let them know that you want them to clarify each item)...it may help.

I just came back from my therapy apppointment and we were discussing communication problems....she said to me that there are 3 sides to every story - yours, theirs and the words said. It made so much sense to me...I thought it was thought provoking to me

I hope you get through this....I know how much better things would be for you if things could be settled.

Good luck hun.
xoxo