Candor, scott - thanks.

yes - i have learned my lesson on that one. =( this email debate continues today. each time i am remaining clear in my objectives and stating that this was for this one man's eyes alone. i think it is starting to clear, but it has taken a great emotional toll on me. It is still not completely resloved and i am just shaking about tuesday. but if no one ever stands up - things will never change.