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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I have this feeling like I want my T to meet H as well. Not for marriage counseling, but just to see what he's like. As T has said, he only knows my H through my eyes. Though whenever I mention possibly bringing him in, even for part of a session, my T hasn't really commented on it (though he has suggested possibility of bringing my mom in at some point, though we'd need to do lots of discussion about what I'd hope to accomplish). In your situation, I'm not sure if it would help or hurt. Would your H be willing to do marriage counseling with anyone else possibly?
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Yes! That! T totally supports me when I talk about my struggles with H and while I adore T it makes me uneasy because it is only my percerption of the situation (not that it is wrong, but it is only one side). I also don’t know if H s just really a toxic person that I need to get away from or if he is hurting and needs to heal so that we can work things out. I totally do not trust my judgement on that but would trust T to have my best interest at heart and be open minded. When H got jealous of T the first time T said that H can come any time, to any session as long as I am OK with it... so T doesn’t seem concerned... and I would call, text, email as soon as I knew.