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I don't think it is right for any female to excoriate men on PC forums. The men here had or have nothing to do with the way they were treated by their poor choice in men.

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My thread was not about the men of PC, but about the men that have raped, stolen and taken from innocent females...... please do not get the two confused with the topic of my thread.

I was talking about females that come to PC and seem to have an over all hate for men in general, from their past....... as it once appeared that I did, when in reality I did not hate all men but was hurt by many men - I was needing to vent my feelings as to release them and to heal so that good more positives thought of men could be formed in me..... but please know that they good cannot come until the old thoughts and memories (the trash) was gone.

BTW - that the ones of us that were sexually abuse by the men in our past - did not chose for it to happen nor did we choice the men - they chose us for what ever reason to abuse us sexually.


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Yes, a minority of men are abusers and mean but, that dosen't give anyone a right to spew hatred against all males. I sure won't be subjected to it.

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And you are right you should not....... and this is where the education part comes in - in knowing (learning) that when a female has been sexually abuse and she comes here for help and she seems to hate all men over all by the way her words are spoken or written just keep in mind that it is NOT all MEN - just the ones that have hurt and released evil upon women.... but know that she may feel that all men are this way (until she heals) for the men in her past have done nothing but hurt and abuse her, and I am not just talking about husbands, dads or boy-friends - but rather those men that rape and take.

IMO - It is the same for a man when he has been wronged over and over again by nasty females in his life and they come here spewing insensitive comments about all women/females - it is just their way of releasing their inner wounds that were created by a female (or many females) and I personally am mature enough to know that the men are not talking about me just because I am a female or all females in general..... but that they are talking from the emotional hurt.

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Hurting people do not always know how to distant the gender from the abuse, therefore, hate comes through when it should not...... this were understanding and compassion needs to play a role in helping the hurting members that come here.

I personally use to be labeled one of those females that hated men when I first came here two years ago and I know I probably still am by some...... but I am here to say that I have changed and that I no longer lump all men in with the evil men that abused me in my past...... and I could not have done that if I was not given the opportunity to vent, the share then heal both here on PC in T.