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Doh2007 said:
Unless it's one's intention to inflame others, it would be practical to not decry all men. Say, "All the men I have known...." or whatever. I think it's possible to vent without offending your fellow travelers.

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Yes, I agree with you and others have stated the same thing........ but that is were I am trying educate others in knowing that when an abused female has placed man in that category of "all men" she does so because she does not know men in any other way, therefore, she needs to be helped (supported from her side of the fence) and not criticized so that she may be given the chance to heal and then she can replace the negative thoughts of men in her mind....... then and only then can she say "the men that hurt me" or "some men" or "bad men" or "the evil men I have known"

Does that make sense?

We must keep in mind that many that come here are not healthy mentally, therefore, they may not be thinking rationally for they are still in T - receiving guidance and help from their therapist and the members here on PC.