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Old Mar 17, 2008, 04:44 PM
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Don't worry-I was 42! before I had my first-we dated 6 months and then broke up-he had a lot of issues. I was very possessive and insecure-didn't know if I was doing things right.....He was a WONDERFUL Christian man, a gentleman and a real sweetheart.
He died unexpectedly of a "catastrophic heart attack" 2 years ago this July 1. Apparently that ran in his family & he didn't have the healthiest lifestyle. I miss him a lot-he wanted to try dating again.

Right now my life is very full with church, etc and other stuff. I'm going to make my life good and if someone else comes along, God willing, that'll be great. I'm a virgin and proud of it and so was he!

In high school and college, I just went out with guys once, most of them younger. One guy looked promising but I couldn't see myself as a minister's wife-I was a senior and he was a freshman when I invited him to Jr/Sr that year.

I don't care about babies at my age-my baby is a puppy-a real sweetheart!

I don't know if men are intimidated by my intelliegence or what-people have introduced me to men but nothing came of it.

Best wishes!

ocd chick!