My boyfriend is having an issue in the bedroom..last few days he openly admitted to me that lately he has no libido. He has been under a lot of pressure and exhausted. I was being understanding. Couple days later, we were drinking and tried to be intimate..but let’s just say he had performance issues. He was ashamed and embarrassed but we talked about it..I guess I should have left things alone for a few days but I didn’t. So yesterday he said some cruel things to me trying to make it seem like has no desire to have sex with me..instead of facing the issue and looking for a solution. He is now deciding he is just not going to have sex and even used religion as an excuse..the fact that this is happening after he couldn’t perform is telling me that he isn’t facing reality. He has a therapist but now I’m starting to wonder about exactly how helpful he is..he is more arrogant if anything. As hard as it is, I have decided the best thing would be for me to give him space and see how he reacts..even if it means I don’t see him for a few days..