Have you considered that he might not be the best you could do? Not saying you need to dump a guy over sexual issues, I wouldn’t, but there seems to be too many issues for a fairly new relationship.

Up to a year year in a half relationships typically is just crazy in love or at least enjoy each other hineymoon kind of stage. As initial excitement fades a bit, and people start moving towards commitment, issues might arise.

But this relationship is full of isssues early on. Now there is also drinking comes to place. Are you commited for life? If not why not explore other options?