mf1438 wow, you're really in a no-win situation if your wife is unwilling to participate in a resolution with you.

So, if divorce is off the table, and getting sex from an escort is off the table, what does she expect you to do?

She's literally removed every possible solution from the table, which shows me she's not respecting your feelings or your needs at all, and put hers above your own. Not very nice of her.

Is she at least willing to use sex toys with you in the bedroom, to at least give you some stimulation? If she won't, perhaps you could try some toys. You can order them online to be delivered to your house directly.