If I received a call like that today as a grown woman, I would be sickened to my stomach. I would become paranoid, looking around my apartment to see if anyone is lurking around, and lose sleep over the thought of "How in the world did he know my name and number?!"

So I cannot imagine the effect it would have on a child. It is legitimately traumatizing and deserves to be treated as such. I'm really sorry you had to go through this.

I hope you can process this in therapy and move forward,.