doesn't really matter if you were right or wrong, seems like you have already made your stand. only you know if it is the right call or not. you know the people involved and all the back drama. she may have had a choice, just as you have had a choice. everyone does..you can't make these decisions for other people. she did what she felt was the right call just as you did.

so walk away. don't participate, but then don't waste time telling everyone the story and looking for them to back up your call. pull up the big girl pants and stand by your decision.