Rhaps >> Good post <<. IMO ,, people in general sometimes have to suit up in thick skin attire .

Abuse can cause the skin to thicken to the point of stone hard ..... Happens .

The amount and type of hurt and/or pain that each of us have had to bare in our lifes can be from A -to- Z.... All in all ,, it is still Each Of ours Individuals pains regardless of topic . I'll always try my best [ and I am not perfect ] To place myself in anothers shoes or maybe just a close fit . And then Hold my tongue [ sometimes I am not good at that either ].... <<<<, But I will always be prepared to talk again and try to meet at a common ground and set out from there ,, Just My Humble Opinion >>. . <<.