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Originally Posted by mf1438
There must be a long list of options. The big D was the first one I heard. Taking medicine to give her more libido. Taking medicine to give me less libido. Conversation. Counseling. Prayer. Intentional Intimacy. Patience. Cuddles. Back massages. The list goes on and on. I'm a project manager by trade. I'm looking to cope in a way that takes her off of the critical path. But I don't want to cut off my nose to spite my face. Some solutions can start to become problems in and of themselves. That's why divorce is not an option for me.  |
"But I don't want to cut off my nose to spite my face" What does that mean? What you don't want to consider now, maybe be something you won't be willing to do without later. I'm talking about sex.
The question is how many years are you going to give it to get better?
Your time could be spent in a more meaningful environment, being happy with someone who is in tune with your needs.
Oh yea one more thing....D will be an option later when you've had enough. Like it or not.