I am curious what attachment to a therapist looks like to people. With mine I don't want to email them outside of session and happily go a week or two without seeing them. Having said this i do think about them a lot and have fantasies about being in there life, which I just put down to wanting someone to care about me and they are probably a key person who has shown me consistency in the way they approach me.
we misattune a little bit where we don't get where the other is coming from and I think we have different humour none of which helps, but I know that previous therapists who have come on too strong i have run a mile.
I also find myself fearful of when I finally leave. I don't like the idea of buying her a present and preferably would ghost the situation because I don't know how to approach it.
Its this that confirms to me I am the dismissive avoidant type.