Hi all

I have a question for you. So baby T is fine and all. No issues really, other than his scheduling is terrible. I usually end up having 3 slots to pick from for the whole week and it's on any random day. Sometimes it's nearly 2 weeks. I also hate having to go through the front desk to deal with scheduling etc as he has no email or voicemail access.

So I decided a few weeks ago to email a few other T's. One of them I really liked his answers to my questions in my email. He seems willing to deal with my statements like "I'm not interested in any sort of bonding and wont tolerate any judgement of what I tell you about my T" --he REALLY impressed me because when I made the intake appointment 2 weeks ago he told me this past week he would be on vacation so I could see him April 3. He replied to 2 emails I had send on that trip.

I emailed because, unfortunately, I discovered even though he accept my insurance, he isn't in network on my specific plan. I wanted to let him know. He ended up calling and was told the same thing and has decided to apply because he wants to be open on all networks

Anyway... so he emailed me today saying it's about a 3 month process to get in network. He says he is more than willing to still meet me this Wed to see if we are a good fit or I can wait

Here's the kicker... his fee without insurance is 100$ a session. I don't know how I feel about 400$ a month if I go every week. He offered 60$ sessions the day of but you gotta call each day and hope there is an open slot.

So anyway... would you try him still this Wed? Or just wait? I'm really unsure what to do

I should also mention that baby T told me sometime this year he is moving locations. I wont be following him. So I will potentially need another T if there is a need for me to go back to therapy after this.