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Old Apr 01, 2019, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
It's interesting that from your perspective he does give a lot of reassurance. Do others think that as well? I may have just been spoiled by ex-MC.
Yes, more than any T I have ever seen. The articles susannahsays posted resonate with me as well. I think receiving reassurance has the potential to keep us dependent instead of forcing us to sit with our uncomfortable feelings and learn how to self-soothe and build up our sense of self-esteem where we no longer require that external reassurance. In my experience, not having access to reassurance is what forced me learn to live without it and become emotionally self-sufficient. I used to want reassurance much like you describe, but now it doesn't even occur to me to want it or ask for it.
Thanks for this!
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