My Support Forums - View Single Post - Emotional abuse? Controlling? What's he doing to me?!

eclairparty98 · Apr 02, 2019, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyShadow

The problem with WhatsApp is the other person can see that you are typing when you are in a chat with them, and if you stop typing then they know the message isn't for them. (Just a heads up for why he is so unreasonable when you are talking to other friends).

That being said, you deserve better than this. My guy sees me typing to other people on WhatsApp, (that's how I know other people can see the typing), but it doesn't bother him at all. This is a small issue, (not to diminish or downplay your feelings), but this shouldn't have escalated to the point where you feel its emotional abuse.

Small things usually lead to bigger things. Just be careful.

I'm glad to know you can have a perfectly fine exchange with your guy on whatsapp without any of this paranoia , that's how it should be

It's never bothered anyone I've dated/befriended - he's sometimes paranoid about me looking at other men in the street so it goes above and beyond whatsapp, unfortunately but this feels like the boiling point where I've decided enough is enough on top of the constant "joking" about me allegedly sleeping around - WHERE is the humour in this??

Thank you so much for the response and the concern, thank you

take care