Can you talk to her about the scheduling? It does seem a bit odd for a psychodynamic T. I’ve had the same one for 1.5 years and it was understood from the beginning that I get the same time and day every week, and when I added a second day he refused to let me come at random times for the second session of the week. As it is, I skip the 2nd Thursday of the month due to my work schedule and T is concerned that will be disruptive for me. My T has a 14 day cancellation policy. I talked to him about it and now feel better about it. He is very consistent and has never canceled even in horrible snowstorms. Anyway, I guess my point is that the consistency seems important in this type of therapy. I’d talk to her about your concern.
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