I have worked with a T who didn’t hold the same time every week for me, but she would book 4-6 weeks at a time about 2-3 weeks out, and was always able to see me weekly. It’s certainly nice to know with my current T that I always see her on Mondays, but I leave work midday to see her. I would be okay with more flexibility in appointment time, like with that previous T, if I had evening appointments.

The thing that would be annoying to me is the reactions you said she’s had to things you said. I think they sound disingenuous and maybe pitying, which is not helpful.