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Originally Posted by retro_chic
In response to Anne 2.0:
Firstly, I told this T in the initial phone conversation that I need an after hours appointment as I work full time. She said she had those times available (which she does to an extent). After my first session which was on a Tuesday she asked if I wanted to book another appointment and would next Wednesday suit me. I asked her then if I could see her on Tuesday because I want to have the same day and time. She said other clients had those slots so I now I have to fit in between them. I said that was fine. There were no “guesses”. I was clear on my what I wanted. We then booked in a few appointments in advance and I assumed that would be my schedule moving forward. Turns out that is not the case and T only booked two weeks ahead then gave my appointment time to someone else.
I don’t know what kind of therapy you do but in psychoanalysis this is not how it is done nor has it been my experience in the past.
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I'm not interested in arguing with you. If you're sure that your communication is without flaws and crystal clear, move forward in whatever way is best for you. I think assuming, as you have stated above, is a flaw in communication. I assumed you were interested in hearing what others have to say, even if they disagree with you. I have no interest in changing what you do or how you see things. I told you what I think. "Not how it's done" is rarely a statement that makes much sense to me, as I think there are many kinds doing things that are pretty much okay. But if you have a specific idea of how you want to do your therapy, then finding someone who's a better match might be a good idea.