I didn’t really attach to any of the Ts I saw before my current one. I liked the routine but it mostly didn’t bother me if they were on vacation and I didn’t really think about them during the week.

I’ve been with my current T for I think 3.5 years. I didn’t really get too attached until maybe the last year. I made myself talk about it with her because I find it terrifying. She says it’s good and normal and means we can do deeper work... which may be true because I guess I also trust her more and have been able to talk about scary things I would never have told my previous Ts.

At this point she says she’d be concerned if I didn’t feel a deeper connection/attachment. She’s an important part of my life.

It still scares me.