Update on my situation.

I apologized and let her come home, we haven't slept together and tried to give each other space, I told her that I was ready to work on things and i only wanted to be with her and I took it too far it making her leave and it wont happen again and that I needed to get my rage in control with that. Because I only told her in the heat of the moment and that's bad and because she didnt really fight me I thought she was good with it too.

Shes been home for 2 nights. Today she told me that she didnt know what she wanted but she didnt want to deal with the break up right now and just focus on her Last couple of weeks of school without anymore stress and that she would like to still stay here but still be broken up and both of us be free to do whatever. She said she doesn't want to feel guilty going out with her friends anymore ect...(I've always tried to get her to go out with her friends I just didnt like her going to bars so I'm assuming that's what she wants to do) while still living here with me.

I told her it sounded like she didnt want to work things out and that she wanted to really be over and while we both know that's probably what is best if were not compatible. I was still willing to keep trying if she was willing amd maybe we could really fix things depending on if we both really wanted to. But she said she doesn't know she just doesn't want to be stressed and wants to just focus on school and herself and told me I should do the same.

I told her I'm not going to force her out because she doesn't have a lot of money to get a place but I told her I cannot live here with her if were not together because I dont want to wonder ever time she leaves if shes going on a date or Visa versa or doing anything else that I wouldn't like. I told her it just isnt fair and if that's what she wanted and not to be together then I think it's best if she got a place and I told her I would help her at least with the first months Bill's but that's it and she said she would look for a place then but she didnt really want to because shes not sure how she might feel in a couple weeks. I told her I get that shes hurt and needs time but I just cant live together like that and I dont want to force her to make the decision just so she doesn't have to deal with stress ect but it's just what has to happen.

I cant fight if theres nothing left to fight for and she just wants out. I have to take care of myself too and find ways to move on also even if that includes going on dates and flings with other women as distractions, I cannot wait around for heart break to smack me in the face.

I didnt tell her about the dates and other women but I told her I cant wait around. Were either going to try and work on it or were not.

What does everyone here think, please help.