I'm sorry I don't think there is anything I can offer regarding what you should do. Perhaps there will be other members, here on PC, who will have some suggestions they can share. However here are links to 3 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of how to deal with difficult family members as well as with narcissistic parents. Perhaps some of the ideas in these articles can be of some help:
How to Deal with Difficult Family Members
Coping When You Have a Narcissistic Parent
How to Deal with Covert Narcissist (Or 'Victim') Parents or In-Laws
My best wishes to you... 
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