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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think what’s going on is pretty bad. I’d feel unsafe. Tell him to stop wrestling with you and lock your bedroom door.
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So, I'm not just being weird and suspicious then, in your opinion?
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Originally Posted by Betty_Banana
If you're wondering if your brother is possibly being sexual then there's a huge possibility he is otherwise you wouldn't even be questioning it.
You really need to do something about this now before it escalates.I would hate for you to come back here and post an update that he has raped you or something.It does and can happen.
I am in no way saying it would be your fault or you would be responsible if it escalates to that level,just saying don't wait around taking a chance just because his place is more comfortable than a shelter.
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Yeah...its just really hard to believe. Like he's someone I've always felt so safe with, its freaking me out to feel on guard around him. Im thinking of maybe asking a friend if I can stay with them for a bit, but i'm not sure what to do about my brother. Is our relationship just going to be weird now? Is there any way to confront someone about this? Like what if I was wrong, it would be so awkward.
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Originally Posted by Bill3
He gets very angry and starts to yell when you suggest that you should have control of your own paycheck?
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Only when I really push it. Idk he just says I'll start screwing up again. I have definitely made some bad decisions with money before, so i guess a part of me understands. I think he has my best interest in mind.