*hugs* I'm really glad to hear you're going to meet up with the new T sooner. I think doing it sooner can help alleviate some of the stress (I'd be stressed to have that meeting on the horizon, and would rather get it over with sooner!) and like you said, it gives you more time just in case the new T isn't a good-enough match for you.

Good luck, I hope the meeting goes well (but again, not too well! ) - just well enough that you can get the support you need!