Girl, I could have written your post myself. I've dealt with BED for years. I lost a lot of weight a couple years ago and then I've gained it all back. I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years for depression and various other issues, and I've brought up BED, but it's not something she works with. And while she said she would help me as best she could with my food issues...it wasn't being dealt with. I started seeing a therapist who soley deals with eating disorders and it has been a completely different experience. We focus on food and surrounding feelings and the like, but we don't discuss things I discuss with my other T.
Sooo, I see both and neither know about the other. Unless my insurance gives me away lol. But, it's working well for me!