L, even though I'm not angry anymore, and I know in my heart that your intention was not to hurt me but that you were trying to help me deal with my feelings for you, the fact remains that I felt deeply hurt by what you said in Feb. And i now understand that that's why I can't come back. Your comment no matter how well-intentioned it was, shattered my trust in you into little bits. I am holding onto the tremendous amount of good work we did together over the years prior to this and moving forward into the rest of my life. There's part of me that still loves you and always will.